YSunday, August 19, 2007
Have you ever felt being taken advantages of, may it be friends or family??? M sure most of us would have. How about taken for granted??? Well...to tell you the truth... it stinks and i hate it. Nvm about being taken advantages or for granted by a family member, as they are the ones who brought you up and give you a shelter over your head. whats more is that they are family and usually what they are doing are for your own good. but what i would like to emphasis is being taken for granted by A FRIEND!
When you expect me to do something for you or even lend you a listening ear when you are feeling down and out. i'll be there for you as that it what friends are expected to do for each other. it might be because that i am always giving in to you. everytime when we meet each other out, i have to wait for you like almost an hour as you will be late ( not rarely...but OFTEN!!!) i don't complaint and rumble on about it as i know there must be a reason why you are late, beacuse we are friends, i don't want to question you further when you didn't even bother to explain why you are late and acted like nothing was going on wrong. Furthermore, you are always late when you want to meet me for something that you want from me and not the other way round. you are always taking things from me and never ever fulfilled you promises that you said to me. like when you promise me to pass me something, you alwasy failed to do so. but i never pressed you for that as i know there must be a reason for the delay. but nothing can make me more angry than today! there is a limit for how much i can stand, even if you are taking me for granted, please remember that i am a HUMAN too with feelings and emotions!
Usually when you want a favour or things from a person, you will kindly ask and go out to make it as convenient for the both of you. Or if the other party really have no time, you will go all out for that person.
but no! you expect me to go all out for you and accomodate you with your time and location without even considering the factors of whether i have the time or where i would have been just to help you with something.Something that you need from me. Whats more the thing that you want form me is not that improtant! when i tell you that i cannot make it, you blame me for it! like..WTH... you should be the one accomodating me instead of the other way around. Whats more is that i have to go to school just like you! You make it seems as though as it is my fault and flare up at me for it. Just to let you know that I AM NOT YOUR TOY that when you want me you treat me nicely and when you don't need me, you just throw me aside. I am not your maid either! i am not paid to do things but i help you before is beacuse i treat you as a friend! Just to let you know is there there is an extent to where friends can take advantages of each other! If you treat me as a friend...then all i have to say is..." Reflect on yourself!!!"
~CheRyL~
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